The Best Advice Isn't Always Practical. "Living in the Moment." Throughout my life I have been advised to "smell the roses" "enjoy the moment," "live in the now," and so on. I am certain I have paid forward the same advice. It really is good advice. It's optimistic advice. It is so very zen. But, in reality, often times this advice is nearly impossible to conceptualize or follow. "Live in … more