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Coming to Terms With Aging

Spirituality book by I. Michael Grossman

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Very hopeful and optimistic reading

  • Feb 7, 2011
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Most people have a less than healthy attitude toward aging and death. This book aims to change that.

In many families, especially in the West, death is joked about, or it is not mentioned at all. Consider the billions of dollars spent every year on anti-aging creams and treatments. The elderly are pushed into convalescent homes or assisted living faclities in a sort of medical apartheid. The first exposure to the word "mortality" is when a grandparent dies, or when the person is told by their doctor that something is not quite right.

The main reason for such attempts to deny the existence of death is fear. What if there really is nothing after death? On the other hand, what if there really is a Judgment Day after death? What if it is decided that I don't "make the cut"? Other fears include the loss of control, the loss of identity, and physical pain at the time of death.

What to do? Write your own obituary. Be honest about yourself. Don't be overly hard on yourself, but don't make yourself sound like a cross between Martin Luther King Jr. and the Dalai Lama. What would Heaven be like for you? Would it be a place where angels sit around and discuss the great issues of time and space or more like a writer's colony, or a place of action like a NASCAR race? There is no wrong answer.

The book also includes several meditations on the subject of death. Imagine the moment of your death. Life is a gift that has been given to you by the universe, and now you are returning the gift. In another, you are walking into the ocean, and the water is getting deeper and deeper. You feel no fear or panic, even when the water is over your head. As you watch the fish and other sea creatures swimming past, you feel your body liquefying, becoming one with the ocean. Starting with your head, you feel your body fading away. Then when you have become part of the ocean, slowly bring yourself back into human form and walk out of the ocean.

For the vast majority of people, death is the Great Taboo. In a way, this is not pleasant reading. But, it is very hopeful and optimistic reading that can do a really good at enriching this thing called Life.

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February 10, 2011
I agree with @. It definitely sounds like a fascinating read! I'll want to check this title out sometime soon.
 
February 08, 2011
This is a really interesting and as you said, optimistic, take on this topic and those are some really tranquil visuals for meditation. I should pick this up for days when I feel like a really deep read. Thanks for sharing, Paul.
 
February 08, 2011
Sounds fascinating. Definitely interested in taking a look at this one.
 
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ISBN-10: 1571431683
ISBN-13: 9781571431691
Author: I. Michael Grossman
Genre: Spirituality
Publisher: RDR Books
Date Published: 2007
Format: trade paperback
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