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Dave has issues

  • Mar 20, 2010
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I thought this might be an interesting book about what it is like to write greeting cards for a living. While there is a bit of that here (working for Hallmark in the mid-1990's was both more prosaic and more weird than you'd expect), mostly this is just about Dave.

And Dave's problems. He's a relapsed evangelical Christian. He's been engaged to his girlfriend for six years, and they remain faithful even though for three of those years she's been away working on her PhD and they see each other once or twice per year. He's an over-educated over-thinking geek with an MFA degree who is struggling financially. He struggles with understanding and applying the social graces; reading between the lines of his own autobiographical writing, he really creeps a lot of people out at Hallmark, but doesn't know or know why when he does find out.

And quite frankly, judging from the stories he tells on himself, he is creepy, He describes an episode of voyeurism, walking across a lawn to peer into a house like a common peeping tom. He wonders through a department story perfume section staring at women's breasts. He prowls the halls of Hallmark looking for empty conference rooms, sleeping under a conference room table, then bursting out as a meeting is about to begin. He hires an "escort" (with a wordy explanation to his fiance and her tentative approval) to provide sexual favors his fiance refuses to provide. His career goal when he realizes that Hallmark is not it is to return to college for his PhD, and one of his major motivators as a 30-year-old is to celebrate his new-found sexual liberation with willing and as near-to-naked-as-possible coeds at Florida State University (chosen over two other universities because of the nearness-to-nakedness factor).

He attributes this career and life change to his freedom from years of fundamentalist guilt over sex. I attribute it to his creepiness. Dave has serious issues. I have two daughters aged 20 and 25, and I would not want him near them, and frankly I think they would instinctively and wisely steer well clear of him if he were at their school.

OK, so why would anyone read House of Cards? Well, despite or perhaps because of his issues Dave is a smart and funny writer, and tells a good story. The insight (when he gives it) of working at Hallmark is interesting.

In fact, I wonder if the story is too good sometimes. He tells us that before going to work for Hallmark he had a story idea and outline of a novel about . . . working at a greeting card company. When he tells us this, along with the prefatory note that the character names are changed and some are composites and some events have been compressed or modified, I wonder how much of his memoir is true, and how much of is a "non-fictionalized" version of his novel.

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Dickerson was a struggling 20-something with a creative writing M.F.A. when he submitted a writing portfolio to Hallmark in part because he had an idea for a novel set at a greeting card company. He takes the job of writing those cards, but what seemed like a natural outlet for his highly verbal sense of humor quickly degenerates in a profoundly alienating environment, where his self-acknowledged ridiculously intense and enthusiastic personality rubs almost everybody the wrong way. The tone is set early—Oh Jesus, I just sent out a cry for help, Dickerson thinks at his first holiday party, and everybody heard it, and no one is coming to save me. His personal life isn't any better, as he struggles to maintain a long-distance relationship with the only woman he's ever dated while coping with the frustration of being a 28-year-old virgin. The behind-the-scenes material is diverting (you'll never be able to read the word special on a card again without smirking), but it's the broader drama of the profoundly un-corporate Dickerson's doomed efforts to fit into the corporate world that gives the memoir its staying power.(Oct.)
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ISBN-10: 1594488819
ISBN-13: 978-1594488818
Author: David Ellis Dickerson
Genre: Biography
Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover
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