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Holding a mirror up to your life...

  • Oct 28, 2007
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It's easy to believe that if you've been successful in some area of life, the process of getting to the next level is just getting better at what got you there. But Marshall Goldsmith makes the point that doing more of the same won't work in the book What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful. I'm inclined to agree with him after reading the book...

Contents:
Section 1 - The Trouble with Success: You Are Here; Enough About You; The Success Delusion, or Why We Resist Change
Section 2 - The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back from the Top: The Twenty Habits; The Twenty-First Habit - Goal Obsession
Section 3 - How We Can Change For The Better: Feedback; Apologizing; Telling The World, or Advertising; Listening; Thanking; Following Up; Practicing Feedforward
Section 4 - Pulling Out the Stops: Changing - The Rules; Special Challenges for People in Charge; Coda - You Are Here Now;
Appendix; Index

Successful people got that way because they are highly skilled at something... decision-making, program design, etc. But there's quite often one or more habits that hold them back from progressing even further than they might otherwise. It may be the company executive that can't quite break into the CEO position. Or perhaps it's the sales person that leads the pack in orders but isn't perceived as a team member. Goldsmith outlines 20 habits that can keep you from making that next step: winning too much, adding too much value, passing judgment, making destructive comments, starting with "no", "but", or "however", telling the world how smart we are, speaking when angry, negativity, or "Let me explain why that won't work", withholding information, failing to give proper recognition, claiming credit that we don't deserve, making excuses, clinging to the past, playing favorites, refusing to express regret, not listening, failing to express gratitude, punishing the messenger, passing the buck, and an excessive need to be "me". After going through each of the habits, he then covers what can be done to identify our problem areas and resolve them.

While reading this, I definitely saw a few of these elements that I need to work on. If I were to couple this with feedback, I'm sure I'd find out even more. Of course, it's easy to fall into the trap of seeing all the flaws of your colleagues here. :) But one statement that Goldsmith said really resonated with me. Often the things you detest in others are indicators of that same flaw in your own life. It's like looking in a mirror and hating what you see. That gem of understanding explains why I have some adverse reactions to certain types of behavior. It's because I hate it when I do it...

If you're willing to hold up the mirror and take an honest look at yourself, this book will give you solid material for personal improvement. You'll also do well if you're willing to let others comment on what they see. It could be exactly what you need to step up to the next level.

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Goldsmith, an executive coach to the corporate elite, pinpoints 20 bad habits that stifle already successful careers as well as personal goals like succeeding in marriage or as a parent. Most are common behavioral problems, such as speaking when angry, which even the author is prone to do when dealing with a teenage daughter's belly ring. Though Goldsmith deals with touchy-feely material more typical of a self-help book—such as learning to listen or letting go of the past—his approach to curing self-destructive behavior is much harder-edged. For instance, he does not suggest sensitivity training for those prone to voicing morale-deflating sarcasm. His advice is to stop doing it. To stimulate behavior change, he suggests imposing fines (e.g., $10 for each infraction), asserting that monetary penalties can yield results by lunchtime. While Goldsmith's advice applies to everyone, the highly successful audience he targets may be the least likely to seek out his book without a direct order from someone higher up. As he points out, they are apt to attribute their success to their bad behavior. Still, that may allow the less successful to gain ground by improving their people skills first.(Jan. 2)
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ISBN-10: 1401301304
ISBN-13: 978-1401301309
Author: Marshall Goldsmith
Genre: Business & Investing, Health, Mind & Body
Publisher: Hyperion
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