Usually I'm not privy to saying very much about my New Year's Resolutions because so many people don't take them seriously, and until a few years ago I was one of those people who was doing the mocking. I made a lot of phony resolutions which, to say the least, were kept easily and didn't require very much work on my own part. If it wasn't that, I would resolve to do something totally outlandish and absurd which I didn't stand a chance in hell of accomplishing. When my resolution to quit drinking so much soda at the start of 2010 became an unexpected success, though, I decided to think through the idea from that point out a bit more.
I thought about resolutions this year and came to these, mostly because I don't see any other good ones. Much of my endeavoring this year is going to the goal of getting me back out of Buffalo, either soon or in due time. I expect it will be the latter, and I'm not sure where I'll wind up. Chicago would be the ideal, but I can't say I'm so dead set on it that I'm going to blind myself to opportunities in other places.
Number one is something I've been trying to do for a few years. I've been wanting to get back into college for some time, but just when I was starting to get off the ground back when I decided I wanted to do it, it would get tangled up in some other thing I wanted to do. Or I wouldn't be able to afford the application fee. Or, back during my messenger days, my debts would get in the way; I was poor enough as it was when the economy went to hell because my income was entirely commission, and there was no work for me to do. Right now there isn't much of an excuse for me to not be able to focus on this goal, and I've also finally narrowed down something I want to specialize in. I knew I was interested in a medical-based field and gave serious thought to therapy, but then an out-of-nowhere candidate came in and took the top spot: Nutrition. My sudden interest in nutrition was sparked by my body's apparent inability to stay at the nutrient levels required by blood donors, and I began being more careful about what I eat. (Well, more so.) It also had to do with my next resolution.
After years of doing just enough to stay in the decent shape I'm in, I've decided to try to build real muscle. Although I normally eat and act in healthy ways, this is going to require a much greater commitment on my own part. Watching food portions and exercising every day are great starts, but actually going out and - well, dare I actually use this term? - bodybuilding will be putting my body through an ultimate challenge it hasn't been through before, and certainly my mutation will add an extra dimension to finding a reasonably workable program which can get me off the ground. The ruling logic behind this radical idea is the same logic which caused me to make my pop-quitting resolution back in 2010: I've tried to do it on a more gradual basis, and kept blowing it. So I decided that, in an instant, that would be that and I was going to go all the way with it or it wasn't going to happen at all.
I'm going to finish my book and start trying to submit more writing samples. My book is actually almost finished as it is. As for general writing, I've been stuck for far too many occasions, and to a point I've been afraid of sending queries because it seems like all the publications I want to send them to use regular staff members to do their writing instead of contributors. Although I've tried to get published in the past, I'm kicking myself for not doing this sooner, because what's the worst that can happen? It isn't as if I haven't been rejected from anything before. The only difficult part is finding a unique and interesting topic to write about.
I've been wanting to try stand-up, since I've been listening to it since I was about six or seven years old. I used to tell stories at slams in Chicago, and a few years ago, with a little encouragement (actually it was more like a challenge) from my friend Dana, I began writing an act. I would like to have the chance to finally try it, and to learn what works and what doesn't work for me. I'm also going to continue writing for it more. Speaking of writing, I will maybe get a bit more serious about journal-keeping, because there are some thoughts that I just shouldn't say out loud or on a computer, or really in public at all.
What's the point of living if you're not expanding your list of interests, after all? Hell, ten years ago I didn't know anything about global politics or alcohol, but I learned a bit about those subjects in short order. Ten years ago, I never had never seen a full baseball game, and now baseball is one of the sports whose teams I have genuine emotional attachments to, plus a little internet fame as a baseball book reviewer. Unless it can be proven otherwise, I'm still convinced that we're here to learn and grow as much as we can. First, though, I have a little stop to make in Chicago!
Let's be honest here. How many people actually follow through on all of their resolutions? Losing weight is always one that is popular this time of year (just visit any gym), but by the time February or March rolls around, the gyms thin out and the waistlines keep expanding. Resolutions are great things, but rarely do we live up to them.
You can make them. But make them real, official goals. It wasn't until recently that I began to take mine seriously - before then, my resolutions would be ridiculous things like "no more made-for-TV movies" and "stay white." Then a couple of years ago, I developed some extra weight and resolved to try little things to get rid of it. First step: Phase pop out of my diet. I'm still keeping to it, and last year I expanded it to include dairy.
I have made an important decision in my life some 12-15 years ago. I am no longer making New year's resolutions but will look at myself everyday... reflect upon my mistakes and see my shortcomings...maybe that way I can become a better person. I can however make a funny resolution list as to what movies or shows I want to see, but that is it. =)
A New Year's resolution is a commitment that an individual makes to a project or the reforming of a habit, often a lifestyle change that is generally interpreted as advantageous. The name comes from the fact that these commitments normally go into effect on New Year's Day and remain until fulfilled or abandoned. More socio-centric examples include resolutions to donate to the poor more often, to become more assertive, or to become more economically or environmentally responsible. People may act similarly during the Christian fasting period of Lent, though the motive behind this holiday is more of sacrifice than of responsibility. The new year resolution is one example of the rolling forecast-method of planning. According to this method, plans are established at regular short or medium-term time intervals, when only a rough long-term plan exists.
There are religious parallels to this secular tradition. For example, during Judaism's New Year, Rosh Hashanah, through the High Holidays and culminating in the Day of Atonement, or Yom Kippur, one is to reflect upon one's wrongdoings over the year and both seek and offer forgiveness. The concept, regardless of creed, is to reflect upon self-improvement annually.
Recent research shows that while 52% of participants in a resolution study were confident of success with their goals, only 12% actually achieved their goals. Men achieved their goal 22% more often when they engaged in goal setting, a system where small measurable goals are...