Bend It Like Beckham-Part Girl Power, Part Honor Thy Parents
Sep 27, 2004
Parminder Nagra is superb as Jesminder "Jess" Bhamra, a London born teen but raised in the Indian orthodox Sikh religion. The youngest daughter of the Family Bhamra (Anupam Kher & Shaheen Khan), Jess is disobedient to her parents and the traditional, old school ways of Sikh.
Jess just happens to be a very gifted football (soccer) player and hatches a plan to go behind her parents backs to play on the London girl's professional football team along with her friend and teammate Juliette 'Jules' Paxton, played by Keira Knightley. Jonathan Rhys-Meyers plays Joe, the dreamy football coach that both of the girls fall for and fight over.
But, as the girl's team starts to gain some media attention, Jess's secret can't be kept forever!
Mr. Bhamra tries to hammer home to Jess that a Sikh is measured by his quality and NOT quantity that he is a small or a big man. So, in a Sikh, it is what comes out of his mouth that matters as it reflects the quality of learning. Disobedience, lying, and above all, interracial relationships are NOT ALLOWED!
Mrs. Bhamra only prays for her youngest daughter to be a normal Sikh young woman, betrothed to a good Sikh young man, and of course, hopes that she can cook a good Aloo Gobi. (Recipe included in the extras of the DVD! How CUTE!)
Jess is grasping to be her own person while still holding true to her faith and upbringing. Jess doesn't want to leave her new, more independent way to live her life for the other, more traditional way of life. All the way through the film she strives to blend the two together in harmony while trying desperately to honor her parents, her family obligations, ties and traditions.
This film is more than a teen, feel good, sports movie. It has the great quality of breaking stereotypes, old traditions, and acceptance, above all...
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