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"Learning to Live Again"

  • Mar 12, 2008
`Dan in Real Life' has a solid premise that seldom falters. It's partly a family film and partly a romantic comedy, but the results are always engaging.

Dan Burns (Steve Carell) is a newspaper columnist who gives people family advice. He's a widower of four years but is rearing his three daughters. At home he's strict to the point of obsession, so he won't let his fifteen year old date a boyfriend for fear of infatuation.

Pending is his family's yearly visit to his parents' rustic New England getaway while he awaits a verdict on whether or not his column will be put in syndication. Going to a local bookstore he discovers a beautiful woman, Marie (Juliette Binoche) with whom he'd like to connect. Later, Marie turns out to be his brother (Dane Cook) Mitch's girlfriend. Trying to juggle his desire to rekindle happiness and be the man he professes to be in his column is difficult at best.

Just like other Steve Carrell movies, his character is awkwardly caught in sticky situations. Unlike the other movies, however, Carrell's performance is more graceful and multifaceted. Dane Cook, who allegedly has a bad reputation as an actor, seems natural and nuanced as his brother Mitch. (Actually, the only other performance I've seen him in is his role as the sleazy voyeur in 'Mr. Brooks,' and there he was quite convincing.) Everyone else keeps a genuine vitality that this comedy needs.

Most of the movie spends time like a home video movie. They play football, sing songs, put on a talent show, play word games, and talk about life. It's a testament to the film that in the process, the brisk editing makes the whole getaway fun with people we really care about. 'Dan in Real Life' may not deliver the biggest laughs, but it is a warm, heartfelt comedy that gives us all a chance to get away from it all.

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review by . March 17, 2008
Fact may be stranger than fiction, but the best fictional narratives create scenes, characters and narratives that put us in the center of a place so true and clear that our heart aches for that time and place.    "Dan" does that for me. While the leads are bankable stars like Steve Carrell, Juliette Binoche, and Dane Cook, this is the kind of small classic that leaves space in the center for your heart and heartaches.    Dan, in real life, is a widowed advice …
review by . May 21, 2008
Didn't plan to see this, but I've discovered a long time ago that movies are more enjoyable when you have no idea what it is about-in other words, unexpected surprises. Well, Dan in Real Life is one of those unexpected surprises. It was thoroughly charming and often funny, not as in laugh out loud funny but more of feel-good funny. Sometimes, comedies like this are the ones that get me more than the laugh out loud comedies (ex. Superbad). Its warmth totally won me over, like a puffy winter jacket. …
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Steve Carell’s best film performance to date can be found in the fitfully engagingDan In Real Life, where his long-suffering persona suits a character who lets his long-dormant hopes rise for a moment, only to be shot down again. Carell plays Dan Burns, a newspaper columnist who writes about family issues and relationships. As a widower with three growing girls to raise, however, the difference between Dan’s printed wisdom and his struggles with fatherhood and loneliness is often vast. He’s put to a severe test when he packs up the kids for a cabin holiday with his parents and siblings, then falls for the exotic, if elusive, Marie (Juliette Binoche) during a solo excursion to a bookstore. Stirred by a woman for the first time since his late wife, Dan is shocked to find that Marie is actually dating his brother Mitch (Dane Cook), and that she’ll be spending the vacation with him in the midst of his family. From that point, the script, co-written by director Peter Hedges (Pieces of April), pretty much becomes a parade of difficult circumstances under which both Dan and Marie have to keep their attraction to one another secret. Certain scenes work better than others, but there is an overall monotony to the movie that isn’t helped by a lack of onscreen chemistry between Binoche and Carell. Both actors are fine on their own terms, but whatever is supposed to be clicking between Marie and Dan isn’t compelling enough to make one truly care that they get...
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Genre: Comedy
DVD Release Date: March 11, 2008
Runtime: 98 minutes
Studio: Buena Vista Home Entertainment / Touchstone
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