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Rachel Getting Married

A 2008 drama film directed by Jonathan Demme.

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Addiction and Co-Dependency - Family Dysfunction Soars...

  • Apr 6, 2009
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Still dealing with her emotional angst, Kym (Anne Hathaway) is sprung from rehab for the weekend, to attend the wedding of her sister Rachel (Rosemarie DeWitt).

When she appears at the pre-nuptial events, Kym faces a host of demons - the least of which are memories of past drama and disappointments. As she wends her way through the emotional debris and faces the anger, hostility and sheer resentments of family members and friends, Kym discovers that forgiveness does not come easily.

Her reunion with her distant mother Abby (Debra Winger) reveals a layer of dysfunction only previously hinted at - and facing up to a long-ago tragedy suggests that forgiving oneself may be the biggest task of all.

Throughout the movie, we are privy to many layers of family connections, friendship bonds, and the power of love. Anne Hathaway's performance was stupendous - revealing a hidden depth only hinted at in previous films. "Rachel Getting Married" is a movie that I will watch over and over - that is how deeply moved I was by this film.

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April 09, 2009
Love your review! I would love to see this movie as well. I was reading @arichards review on this movie and it seems he shares the same love for Anne Hathaway in this film. Do you know if this was her first drama?
April 09, 2009
Thanks...and as for Anne Hathaway -- I'm not sure if she's done any other dramas.
April 14, 2009
Maybe with people singing her praises- she will, lol.
April 06, 2009
April 06, 2009
I had wanted to watch this movie but, hadn't had the chance. Thanks to your great review, I'm going to rent it tonight...
More Rachel Getting Married reviews
Quick Tip by . September 19, 2013
romantic emotional, love, relationship, not easy, while we still try make it be happier!
review by . July 22, 2009
Take a look at the star ratings! I've never seen such a curve, with twice as many one-stars as any other number, and with such rhapsody versus such vehemence in the reviews. You'd think it was a book about global warming, from such agonistic writing.    I can understand both sides here. "Rachel Getting Married" was in no way entertainment. Even my wife, who for once didn't fall asleep in the middle of a movie she'd rented herself, said she was 'glad she'd seen it' but wouldn't …
review by . February 15, 2009
Short Attention Span Summary (SASS):     1. Kym (Anne Hathaway) gets out of rehab, just as ...   2. ... her sister Rachel's getting married   3. Kym immediately starts making waves as she does her best impression of "normal" within a dysfunctional group.   4. What the heck's up with the bridegroom (Tunde Adebimpe) and those gawd-awful glasses? I know we're trying for "regular" people here, but no self-respecting brother's gonna be caught dead in …
review by . June 13, 2009
Jonathan Demme's latest may boast an award-nominated performance by Anne Hathaway but gets a little too confessional for my tastes. Self revelation is a good thing as long as it reveals--not retards the flow of a film.    Demme's camera drops right in on this Long Island family as the oldest daughter is marrying the man of her dreams in a slightly unconventional ceremony.  During this time spent with the touchy, highly combustible personalities we meet Rachel's sister Kim(Hathaway), …
review by . May 17, 2009
Watching this movie was difficult for me. On the one hand, it's interesting to see a 'take' on how a family copes with addiction and tragedy. I happen to know from personal experience.    Some of the characters were o-kay for stereotypes, but as genuine reflections? Not so much.    Especially Anne Hathaway's character.    If you've EVER dealt with an addict or a recovering one (especially early on), they are no where near as 'thinking' …
review by . March 22, 2009
I had heard about this movie and figured I would enjoy it but wow, just wow! This movie was great, I would definitely call it eclectic. The group of people in this movie were amazing, from the main actors to the wedding party guests to all the musicians it was just great. Made me wish I was part of this diverse group of people, it was just awesome to see.    For awhile I was bothered by some of the background information that was only hinted at about Kym's background but then …
review by . March 21, 2009
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Several reviewers describe this film as painful to watch - and the subject matter is painful, but I found it fascinating, both because of the high level of the performances and because of the exceptionally strong camera work. I was also very impressed by the fact that the interracial marriage that gives the film its title was never made into an issue -- while there is definitely still room for films that address the various forms of prejudice (racial and otherwise) that continue to have strong roots …
review by . March 14, 2009
RACHEL GETTING MARRIED proved to be an entry card for Anne Hathaway's Oscar nomination, and while she turns in a strong performance, there is really very little else to recommend this film so unlike the work of Jonathan Demme. Written by Jenny Lumet, the story of a dysfunctional family on the weekend of the marriage of daughter Rachel (Rosemarie DeWitt) being upturned by the arrival of daughter Kym (Hathaway) on temporary leave from a rehab center and the clashes that occur from this planned happy …
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A retired social worker, specializing in child welfare services, I have brought my professional and personal experiences to my five novels and assorted short stories.      On Amazon.com, … more
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Rachel Getting Married is a 2008 drama film directed by Jonathan Demme, and starring Anne Hathaway, Rosemarie DeWitt, Bill Irwin and Debra Winger. The film was released in the U.S. to select theaters on October 3, 2008. The film opened the 65th Venice International Film Festival. The film also opened in Canada's Toronto Film Festival on September 6, 2008. Hathaway was nominated for Academy Award for Best Actress for her role, but lost to Kate Winslet in The Reader.
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Genre: Drama
DVD Release Date: March 10, 2009
Runtime: 113 minutes
Studio: Sony Pictures Classics

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