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Two Lesbians Raised A Baby And This Is What They Got

  • Dec 2, 2011
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This video first surfaced on my Facebook feed yesterday morning and was shared/liked over 1.2 million times on Facebook and at the time of this review, viewed over 11 million times on YouTube. With all that attention on one video, one question remains, if so many people support this video, why can't we have a federal law that supports same-sex marriage? If those people that clicked through to the video could click in a voting booth, we'd have our answer.

I watched this video and was taken aback, in the best sense of the phrase, by this young man who is only 19 and speaks about his experience being raised by two lesbians. He is speaking to the Iowa government about gay marriage. I thought that he was my age! He is so well spoken that there is no doubt in my mind that he's a Poli-Sci major and I would vote for him.

He speaks about his experience and how his family is just like every other family. The part that stood out to me is when the conversation about same-sex marriage occurs, the question of gays able to raise a family comes up and silence immediately follows. I have had some personal experience with a friend of mine in high school and his two dads. I never thought of it as weird and loved the two dads, who, yes were both called dad. They raised a great kid with a big heart and a social consciousness who would go on to have his own (heterosexual) family. I add that note because often people say, ignorantly, that if gays raised kids that the kids would be gay and that's just not true.

This young man does a great job speaking up for the kids of gay couples and shows a great example to those that doubted that homosexual couples can raise a kid just as well as a heterosexual couple. He brings an important and necessary voice to the same-sex debate.

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December 13, 2011
Good write up Sam. I personally don't know anyone who has been raised by same-sex parents but being open minded I think it's great this young man stood up and praised his mothers - that took a lot of guts in my opinion. It's the end result of child raising that should count, not who raised the child. Thanks for sharing Sam!!
December 15, 2011
Thanks Brenda! I agree completely, it took a lot more guts than most people have, it always does to stand up for what's right.
December 15, 2011
Yes it does; so much ridicule out there in the world and he stood up to it - kudos to him.
 
December 02, 2011
Yes, go Zach Wahls! I grew up in a very liberal town and quite a few of my classmates/friends had lesbian parents, and they are all exceptional and wonderful people. It's weird to see people make such a big deal out of it, and to even think of their families as different since I grew up with so many same-sex couples with children around me.
December 03, 2011
Me too, Debbie! I never, once, saw a neglectful, hateful, disrespectful or abusive gay parent. I did see my share of hetero parents that were all of those things (not all of them, of course!). I was always confused as to what the big deal was but, yes, like you, I grew up in the SF Bay Area and we're known to be a little more liberal than the rest of the country.
 
December 02, 2011
yeah this was very interesting....hey, I know someone who was raised by a so-proclaimed 'normal couple' and he ended up being a douche. Have you seen "The Kids Are All Right"? Great movie with this kind of related theme....
December 02, 2011
Yep, I know plenty of those kinds of kids! I went to school with half of them lol. That is a great movie!
 
December 02, 2011
I have seen this all over the internet the past couple of days. Hopefully one day this will not be an issue that divides us. Hopefully one day it will not be an issue at all Until that day it will take strong voices like this young mans to get the word out there.
December 02, 2011
Exactly! There will be one day where this video wouldn't get a second look because it's of a son talking about his parents, and how exciting is that? But, I applaud this man for stepping up and answering everyone's questions when no one else has done that.
 
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Same-sex marriage and gay marriage are terms for a legally or socially recognized marriage between two people of the same sex.

The first country to allow same-sex couples to enter into legally recognized marriage was the Netherlands, effective in 2001. Since then, six other countries and seven U.S. states have followed suit, though voters in California revoked it through passage of Proposition 8. Proponents of same-sex marriage regard it as a human right to be able to enter into marriage regardless of sexual orientation. Those who oppose same-sex marriage often base their opposition on the perceived societal impact of same-sex marriage, concerns about indirect consequences of same-sex marriage, parenting concerns, tradition, or religious grounds. In 16 countries, and specific jurisdictions within 5 others, same-sex couples can join in a civil union but cannot marry. Additionally, Israel, the U.S. state of New York and Washington, D.C. recognize legal same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions but do not perform their own. Political and legal debate continues in over two dozen other countries and multiple U.S. states.
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